Zena Kondziolka

1972 - 1986
LocationSt Albans
Age14 years
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth26/05/1972
Date of Death30/09/1986
Visitors2,521 since 17/02/2009
Creator

Zena was cruelly taken from us when I was 17, (24 years ago there was no such thing as a memorial website let alone a computer in every room and house. Anyway 24 years on I find myself doing this memorial for my wonderful sister because my mum has also passed on 2 months ago on Friday and I find myself lost with no direct biological family left). Zena was a friendly, lively soul who was absolutely passionate about horses, they were her life, and she owned a horse called Miranda whom she loved dearly every spare moment was spent with her down the stables. My sister is still missed and I still think about her everyday at some point after 24 years and especially now mum has joined her, my heartaches and I wish mum didn't have to leave too I love them both and miss them both so much,
Love me xxx xxx

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Been thinking of you today on what would have been your 39th birthday.

Always missing you.

Lots of Love

Sasha xxx

Sasha Dean (Close Friend)

May 26, 2011

Don't cry for the horses that life has set free.
A million white horses, forever to be.
Don't cry for the horses now in God's hands.
As they dance and prance to a heavenly band.

They were ours as a gift, but never to keep
As they close their eyes, forever to sleep.
Their spirits unbound, forever to fly.
A million white horses, against the blue sky.

Look up into Heaven. You will see them above.
The horses we lost, the horses we loved.
Manes and tails flying, they gallop through time.
They were never yours, they were never mine.

Don't cry for the horses, they will be back someday.
When our time has come, they will show us the way.
Do you hear that soft nicker close to your ear?
Don't cry for the horses, love the ones that are here.



Brenda Riley-Seymore

Debby Kidde

May 26, 2011

I have a picture of you and your mum on my dressing table, every day I see you both, you are never far from my mind, I wish you could have lived your life beyond the years you did....it would be nice to think today you are supping Champagne with your mum over looking some wonderful place.....what ever....you are always in our thorghts xxxxxxxxxxxx

Elizabeth McDonald (Auntie)

April 1, 2011

always in my heart

Today I sit and wonder what life would have been like, would be still be the greatest friends?, would our children be how we used to be? I can believe you have been gone so long it just does not seem possible. Life changes so much everyday but your smile remains the same, One day I KNOW we will meet again. I miss you loads and want to wish you a happy birthday, I hope your doing something special with your mum. Have a glass of angel bubbly for me. Love you loads. Sasha x x x x

Sasha Dean (Close Friend)

May 26, 2010

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Jackie Summerford

May 26, 2010

Happy Birthday with love

What would of you have been?
I ask myself,
A champion horse rider, A vet, A doctor, who knows
But I often wonderwhat path you would of chose,
When you were here on earth you were so young and full of life and joy you shared it with us all,
Many years have passed since that fatel day, when you were swiftly taken away,
We live our lives looking through our minds of memories of your glourious days each of us with a special memory to highly sing your praise,
Today is your birthday a Special day to remember you Zena with heart felt praise and love for all you gave and tht now remains in our hearts every day with all those happy days,

Happy Birthday sweetheart love you lots and thank you for touching my heart
Love Juliet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Juliet Crosby (Auntie)

May 26, 2010

Always remembered

Looking at all the photos of you, seems like yesterday, happy days,
think of you every day along with your mum...for ever loving you and your mum xxx

Elizabeth McDonald (Auntie)

January 16, 2010

My Friend

I was with Zena on that terrible day of the accident. I remember saying good bye to you in the chaple of rest, it was so hardest day of my life. I have a 14 year old and 12 year old myself now and have passed my fear of the road to them.

I often think about you Zena and still visit your grave when i go to see my sister as i dont live in the area anymore. I still don't understand why you were taken from us all. I wonder what you would be doing now if you were still here.

Love and miss you,

All my love
Belinda
xxxxxx

Belinda Carbone

January 15, 2010

my best friend

Wow,this is such a lovley tribute to zena.She would of been proud of you Katrina!
Zena was my best friend and looking at these pictures it only feels like yesterday.Of all my experiences in my life loosing a friend at such a young age is so unfair.But she is still in my life because i talk about her all the time my boys & i visit her every year.You never loose memories and i have lots of fond ones.Especially the times at spielplatz it was like being on holiday.I remember me&zena doig a show to the old people singing "Daisy,Daisy"I was the boy,she was the girl,would love to find the video.
I miss her so much and i often think when i saw her the day of the accident we should of bunked of school.
love and miss you dearly your best mate Lisa Harper(smith)xxxx

Lisa Smith

December 12, 2009

What a wonderful memorial......

Aplogies if a little late, but this recently appeared on fb by our mutual friend Jane Charteris. I just wanted to say how I remember Zena well having grown up in Bricket Wood myself and was in her class at MPL JMI school. We gravitated towards each other at school, being the only two redheads in our year. I would also see her when we both competed at riding gymkhana's in Chiswell Green. Both myself and my neighbour, Lian Horton, would often meet up with her outside of school and we both have many happy memories laughing and playing with Zena. We were both saddened, when we heard the news whilst at senior school. I still remember hearing this as I recall how many kids in our senior school, many of whom never went to MPL or even lived in Bricket Wood, were so devastated by this. I remember thinking how many lives she must have touched in her lifetime to be so well and fondly thought of as to have had such an effect. Sarah x

Sarah Berry

December 8, 2009
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